“A Fruit Bowl of Pain”: Fibroids, Black Bodies & the Fight to Be Believed
Amisha Abeyawardene Amisha Abeyawardene

“A Fruit Bowl of Pain”: Fibroids, Black Bodies & the Fight to Be Believed

Fibroids affect up to 60% of Black women by age 35, yet too often, their pain is dismissed or misdiagnosed. In "Fruit Bowl of Pain," Amisha the Birthworker explores what fibroids are, why they disproportionately impact Black women, and how they affect pregnancy, fertility, and postpartum health. Learn about fibroid symptoms, treatment options, and why advocating for Black maternal health is crucial for reproductive justice. Whether you're navigating heavy periods, pregnancy with fibroids, or recovery, this guide offers vital information, solidarity, and hope.

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Honouring Lesbian Visibility Week 2025: Fertility, Birth, and Family Justice
Amisha Abeyawardene Amisha Abeyawardene

Honouring Lesbian Visibility Week 2025: Fertility, Birth, and Family Justice

This Lesbian Visibility Week 2025, I’m celebrating the diverse realities of lesbian fertility, birth, and parenting. As a non-binary lesbian doula, I’m sharing reflections on fertility justice, the meanings of the lesbian flag in birthwork, and why lesbian parenthood is sacred, powerful, and worthy of visibility and care.

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Book Review: Birth in Focus by Becky Reed
Amisha Abeyawardene Amisha Abeyawardene

Book Review: Birth in Focus by Becky Reed

Becky Reed’s book is a powerful testament to the importance of continuity and relational care in birth. Through deeply personal stories and intimate photographs, she highlights how trust between midwives and birthing people transforms the birth experience. Drawing from her work at the Albany Practice—a groundbreaking midwifery model that supported marginalized communities—Becky challenges the over-medicalization of birth while honoring all choices, from homebirths to gentle cesareans. This book is a must-read for doulas, midwives, and anyone passionate about autonomy in maternity care. Read the full review now!

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Palestinian birth practices: Accounts from dayat (traditional birth attendants) in Palestine
Amisha Abeyawardene Amisha Abeyawardene

Palestinian birth practices: Accounts from dayat (traditional birth attendants) in Palestine

This blog is a compilation of knowledge gathered from various research studies conducted by Laura Wick and others at the Institute of Community and Public Health of Birzeit University in Palestine. The research involved interviews with birthing people and dayat (traditional birth attendants) to gain first hand accounts of birth practices in Palestine.

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Advocating for yourself during birth: Why informed refusal is just as important as informed consent
Amisha Abeyawardene Amisha Abeyawardene

Advocating for yourself during birth: Why informed refusal is just as important as informed consent

In birth work spaces we often talk about the importance of informed consent. Informed consent is a principle in medical ethics and medical law that a patient should have sufficient information before making their own free decisions about their medical care. Interestingly there are several different definitions of informed consent depending on where you look.

Many birth workers also speak of free consent, which means that a person is able to give consent without being coerced one way or another.

These principles of free and informed consent rely on health care professionals who provide adequate provision of information and education to the birthing person regarding the nature, management implications, options and outcomes of various choices.

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We need to rethink linear time in the birth space
Amisha Abeyawardene Amisha Abeyawardene

We need to rethink linear time in the birth space

Linear time is the idea that time is sequential, always pushing forward and never back. This subjectivity may be considered normal, but if we look at time from the perspective of various non-western cultures, this is not necessarily the case. Within the labour ward setting, time is a finite resource that is essentially ‘running out’ the moment you you walk through the hospital doors.

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